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Don’t Go It Alone

Planning for support as you age, on your terms.

You may be managing life comfortably today. What would happen if things changed? This practical guide is for anyone planning for later life—especially if you don’t have a nearby relative or friend who could take on a formal helping role.

Inside, you’ll learn how to

  • Name what matters most, so a future helper can honor it
  • Choose a helper for capacity, not just love—with a checklist of what the role really involves
  • Organize your resources and records before anyone needs them
  • Compare where you could live well, with ten questions to ask on a community tour
  • Understand who does what: estate planning, legal counsel, and fiduciary roles
  • Arrive at a first conversation prepared, with a one-page planning worksheet
Cover of Don’t Go It Alone by Judith del Cuadro-Zimmerman

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A look inside

Practical tools, not just reading

Seventeen illustrated pages, with checklists and questions you can use right away. Each chapter ends with a short exercise to help you think it through.

Guide page: What the Role Can Involve checklist

What the role can involve

A checklist that shows how much a helper may really take on—and why the choice matters.

Guide page: Explore Where You Could Live Well, with tour questions

Questions to ask on a tour

Ten questions to bring when you visit a retirement or assisted living community.

Guide page: Your Planning Notes worksheet

Your planning worksheet

A one-page worksheet to gather your thoughts before a first conversation.

Judith del Cuadro-Zimmerman

About the author

Judith del Cuadro-Zimmerman

Judith is the founder and managing attorney of dCZ Legal. She devotes her practice to fiduciary counsel, probate litigation, and guardianship and conservatorship matters, and is co-chair of the DC Bar’s Estates, Trusts, and Probate Law Community.

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